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Weekday Musings with Pastor Brian

Whoa... Two posts in one week.  What's going on?  Actually, I want to share an excellent article I received from Thom Rainer, President of Lifeway, prior pastor, and seminary professor, on: Nine Concerns about Church Members Who Withhold Their Financial Gifts.  If you're a pastor, you've experienced it.

Another Weekday Musings - February 5, 2015

Jean Harrison

Whoa… Two musings in one week.  What’s going on?  LOL!  Maybe it is concern that I might not have time to write one while at the Counseling Conference.  At any rate, I just received a very good article from Thom Rainer’s blog.  Dr. Rainer is the President of Lifeway, a former pastor, and former professor at Southern Theological Seminary.  I get these on a regular basis, and often find them intriguing, informative, and frequently on topics that I have either experienced, am concerned about, am currently, or have had to deal with.  Today’s is one example.  

Years ago, before becoming a Pastor, Jean and I had been sacrificially contributing above our weekly giving (often called a “tithe”) to the building fund campaign at our church. We had caught our Pastor’s vision for the property.  Unfortunately some people in the church decided they didn’t like that vision, and vocally worked to change it. We became disheartened over it.  After much prayer, we no longer felt we could contribute to the campaign; and we were even prayerfully concerned about staying in that church.  But… all that said, we never stopped our weekly giving or even our benevolent giving; in our view, that was God’s money.  We had come to understand that we gave to the Lord through our church, not necessarily to the church, or our pastor, or these folks who were hijacking his vision… if that makes sense.  The only way we could stop that giving was if we had left and were giving to a new church.  As my story goes, it was actually in short order that God called me to pastor a church; and we then gave to it.

So… have you ever known someone who was ticked off, or upset over this or that, or someone, and determined that they were going to stop their regular giving to their church… that they were going to withhold it?  What are we to make of that? I confess, I have actually learned of people over the years who have done just that.  And while I realize now that some may have done so out of ignorance of Scripture; I did think less of them.  What about you?

Below is Thom’s article.  Let me know your thoughts.  And by the way, Dr. Rainer’s Blog is an excellent and thought provoking one.  You might want to check it out and sign-up for it.  

Always looking to sharpen us up as we Grow in Grace.

Pastor Brian

Nine Concerns about Church Members Who Withhold Their Financial Gifts

By Thom S. Rainer

The story is too common, but I hear such stories repeatedly. My most recent conversation was with a church leader where an affluent church member offered to make a large contribution to the renovation of the worship center. He had one stipulation: the worship center had to be named in memory of his late mother. The leader politely declined. The affluent member did not make the donation. To the contrary, he began withholding all of his gifts to the church.

Almost every pastor and church leader has some story about members withholding their financial gifts as an act of protest about the direction of the church and its leadership. I have never known such a situation that had any positive affect. Such is the reason I offer nine concerns about this practice.

    1    It assumes that we are the actual owners of our finances. That is unbiblical thinking. God gives to us everything we have. We are the stewards of these gifts. Such is the reason we use the word “stewardship.”

    2    No church is perfect. If every member protested about an imperfection in a local congregation, no church would ever receive funds. This selfish act is not the way to resolve concerns.

    3    This practice is divisive. One of the most precious resources of any congregation is unity. The withholding of financial gifts is an act of disunity and divisiveness.

    4    It is controlling. The church member who withholds financial gifts seeks to get his or her way. Such is not the spirit of Paul’s words in Philippians 2:3: “Do nothing out of rivalry or conceit, but in humility consider others as more important than yourselves.”

    5    It is self-serving. When Paul penned 1 Corinthians 12, he emphasized how we are to function in the body of Christ. Our motive for serving is for Christ and others before ourselves.

    6    It is demoralizing. Paul wrote in Romans 14:19, “So we must pursue what promotes peace and builds up one another.” This practice has the opposite effect.

    7    It backs church leaders into a corner. Leaders have one of two options. They can yield to the church member and thus affirm a sinful practice. Or they can refuse to yield and continue the conflict that was started by the member. It is a lose-lose situation.

    8    If the church member truly has serious disagreements with the direction of the church, he or she should pursue other paths. They can address their concerns with leaders in the church directly. If members still have serious concerns and no resolution seems possible, it may be best to go to another church. It is much healthier to give to another church than to withhold from your present church.

    9    This practice never has a positive outcome. Even if the member gets his or her way, unity and trust are broken at many levels. The body of Christ is always wounded by this practice.

This topic is both sensitive and challenging. I certainly am not the fount of wisdom. Let me hear your thoughts and ideas.

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